THE STRENGTH TO THRIVE

in life, love, loss & divorce

Get off the fence

AND MAKE A DECISION YOU CAN FEEL GOOD ABOUT.

YOU’RE LEFT WONDERING:

  • “Is this how marriage is supposed to feel?”

  • “Maybe this is as good as it gets?”

  • “If they just make the changes I asked things will get better.”

  • “Is it too much to ask to be truly happy? Maybe this is just what marriage is about - a forever commitment, even if I’m unhappy.”

  • “Am I stuck inside this marriage for the rest of my life?”

  • “Am I a complete failure if I don’t want this anymore?”

  • “Will I be ruining my kids?”

  • “How could I possibly make it on my own?”

  • “How could I ever afford to move out let alone support myself and my kids?”

  • “What if I never find love again? I’m too scared to be alone.”

  • “I don’t want to be known as a “divorcee".

  • “What if I regret my decision?””

After years of building a life with someone, with the expectation that you would be together “until death do you part”, you find yourself with lingering doubts about what you signed up for…

Fixing a struggling relationship feels like trying to summit Everest without a route. Where do you even start?

Finding help can be overwhelming and complicated, especially when juggling family life and pretending that everything is “fine” at home.

YOU DON’T HAVE TO KEEP LIVING LIFE JUST GOING THROUGH THE MOTIONS…SPENDING MONTH AFTER MONTH, EVEN YEAR AFTER YEAR, LIVING AN UNLIVED LIFE…

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WHAT IF...

YOU WERE ABLE TO FEEL HAPPY AGAIN?

YOU WERE ABLE TO GET CLEAR ON WHAT YOU WANT RIGHT NOW?

YOU COULD LEARN WHY YOU LOVE THE WAY YOU DO AND HOW TO MANAGE TRIGGERS AND STRESS?

YOU COULD LEARN PROVEN WAYS TO REPROGRAM UNCONSCIOUS BELIEFS THAT ARE KEEPING YOU STUCK IN UNCERTAINTY, CONFUSION AND UNWORTHINESS?

Whether you are wondering if divorce is really the answer for you and how to determine if it is,

I 've got you.

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As a Certified Divorce & Relationship coach, my training in Integrated Attachment Theory and EMDR Therapy allows me to use various research-based modalities to help you identify the core wounds that are holding you back, teach you how to reprocess your subconscious limiting beliefs and empower you to unhook from the fear and anxiety thats keeping you stuck in uncertainly unable to make any big decision about your life at all let alone the decision to divorce.

My expert guidance helps you navigate the messy middle by empowering you with knowledge, skills, immediate tools, mindset shifts, emotional alignment and a renewed sense of self so you can be confident that you are making the right decision for YOU.

On the other side of this decision - whether you choose to stay and work on breathing life back into your relationship or you choose to prepare for a compassionate ending - you have an incredible opportunity for transformational change. It just may be the exact change your life needs.

NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS...

My entire mission is...

to teach you how to harness your inner strength to not only survive divorce or loss, but to THRIVE because of it.

Everyone’s life and circumstances are different. Relationships aren’t cookie-cutter. You are different and unique, and so are your needs. I am here to help you make the best choice for you - no matter what decision that is.

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When I look back on my divorce now, I can see how many mistakes I made: spending too much money, taking advice from the wrong people, letting fear get in the way. I found myself rebuilding my life from the ground up, without anyone to show me what came next.

Hi, I 'm Cindy Stibbard

But as I went about it, I started to feel like the universe was sending me a message: Learn from this. Grow from this. And then go out and teach other people how to tap into their inner strength and use it not only to survive a difficult transition but THRIVE because of it.

If there’s one thing I learned, it’s that we can do hard things. When we are faced with the difficult surprises that life can throw at us, we can choose to either let them beat the strength out of us, or beat the strength into us. We get to choose to see hard things as happening FOR us not to us.

IT’S THE STRENGTH WITHIN YOU THAT HARD LIFE EXPERIENCES LIKE A BREAKUP, DIVORCE, OR LOSS CAN BRING OUT IF YOU  CHOOSE TO LET THEM. IT’S NOT GOING TO BE EASY, BUT I PROMISE YOU - IT’S GOING TO BE WORTH IT.

I’m a Certified Divorce & Relationship Coach with training in Human Behaviour, Betrayal Trauma, Grief, and Relationship Dynamics, and I’m currently completing a certification in Integrated Attachment Theory, Somatic EMDR Therapy & Stress Release with Dr. Scott Lyons Embodiment Lab. I also host one of the top 5% of divorce podcasts in the world, Divorce ReDefined.

As your coach, I get to be the candid, unbiased, been-there-before person you need in your corner supporting you and preparing you for everything that lies ahead.

It is my true honour to be your guide...

and share with you the expertise I have gained over the years helping hundreds of individuals like you find the strength to thrive in life, love, loss and divorce

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DOING DIVORCE AND RELATIONSHIPS DIFFERENTLY